Debbie Havusha’s Blog: The Road to Recovery
The Road to Recovery
I just spent the May long weekend in Saltspring Island with my dear and sweet husband Yossi. This was
a getaway to mark my one year road to recovery from Sarcoma Surgery. A rare cancerous tumour was
found below my left knee. This sarcoma was growing at the junction of 3 tendons and was removed
with clear margins thanks to 25 precise radiation pre-surgery treatments. Sarcomas are the rarest of
cancers that can grow in bone, muscle, tendon and fascia typically in the arms and legs but not excluding
places like the neck and stomach. My type, ‘Clear Cell’ is one of the rarest of the sarcoma family and
more often is found in younger people ages 20-40.
Our maturing lives have many twists and turns when recovering from illnesses or living with
compromising conditions. Our road maps to recovery are not the road trips one takes along the Italian
Amalfi Coast or along the Sea to Sky Highway to Whistler or down south to the Dead Sea in Israel where
one can float at the world’s lowest sea level like a living corpse.
Living life when faced with an oncoming dangerous ‘vehicle’ requires a new driver’s manual. We have
choices at the driver’s seat as to how slow or fast to proceed, when to stop, when to yield and to give
ourselves the right of way. My year long journey has been very much like being in a living traffic pattern
of yielding and stopping and stalling along the way, while incrementally recovering speed and then
proceeding.
The red light stopped me in my boots upon receiving the cancerous Sarcoma diagnosis on February 15 th
2016. The orange light was longer than usual. During my rehabilitation period after the May 17 th 2016
surgery, I had to learn to walk again with caution, pacing and keeping my distance from blood clots or
infections potentially in front of me. The pedestrian green light in October was flashing. I was granted
the ‘go ahead’ from my incredible doctors at BC Cancer Agency to make my travel plans to Israel for
November 16 th 2016.
This past weekend I felt all the traffic lights at work. The fork in the road to recovery is indeed twofold.
It is healing and happiness merged into one dynamic traffic pattern. At this divine junction we stop and
yield for healing and prayers and then, moving ahead with happiness and gratitude. We need to give all
these components the rights of way to fill the body, the mind and the spirit. Amen.
Safe driving,
Debbie Havusha
Please join me at the next monthly Healing and Happiness event featuring Deborah Katz who will be
presenting her book ‘Rare is Everywhere’.
6 Comments
Gideon laufer
Thank you Yosi and Avigdor for a great and enjoyable evening, a rare opportunity
To meet a real spacial man that is called “melach ha arets” that errand this title in
extreme bravery and dedication.
I wish you Avigdor and your wife Dalia all the best, enjoy the rest of your trip in
The US and keep on the good work.
Gideon Laufer
Vancouver Canada
Robbie Slade
What a nice analogy. Sharing with my mum 🙂
Brenda Grubner
Wow, Debbie I am so sorry I did not know what happened to you! So happy to read that you are on your road to a great recovery!
Sending you a warm hug and much love for a healthy and happy future!
Violeta Esquinazi
Debbie, thanks for sharing your journey of recovery. I believe that talking and writing about it is also part of your healing. May haShem grant you a long life of continued accomplishments and journeys to places filled with road signs of reflection, joy, wonder, and hope.
Glennis
Debbie, isn’t it ironic when a break occurs and we don’t talk for awhile, how life changes so quickly. I’m glad you are doing well. I’m sorry I didn’t know until I read your story. I wish you all the best and hope to meet up real soon.
Big hug!
Shelley Civkin
Debbie, what a beautiful analogy, between your diagnosis and our literal travels in this world. You are such a positive person and such an inspiration to all. To the casual observer, you seem to carry the weight of the world like it was nothing. But I know that your struggle was very real and very heavy. Attitude and gratitude are everything. Thank you for being such a beautiful role model and such a caring, loving, and giving person.
With love,
Shelley C.